I have a women friend that we have a STRONG physical attraction, chemistry (that’s what you ladies call it) towards each other, but I just can’t get her mentally at all. Each time we talk, the least bit, its painful, she gets upset, I’m pissed cause I’m confused, and it just sucks!!

What do you do next.



By: pluto

7 Responses to “Okay ladies, if you have a physical connection with a man, but he just doesn’t get you mentally, what next?”

1. The Dinmeister on August 11th, 2009 5:41 pm

   Relationships can never be built just on physical attraction. There needs to be a mental factor in there too. Seems as though you lack that…. I’d advise against your relationship.

2. Emily Dew on August 14th, 2009 2:18 am

   I’ve been in that situation a time or two before I was married and I just enjoyed the relationship/friendship for what it was, if you get my drift. You both would have to be really careful though not to pass along any STDs seeing as you wouldn’t be in a committed relationship.

3. KIZZY on August 17th, 2009 3:42 am

   She is just in for the sex!

4. prissy on August 19th, 2009 7:10 am

   YOU ARE NOT CONNECTING WITH HER MENTALLY BECAUSE SHE ONLY WANT THE PHYSICAL ASPECT OF YALL RELATIOSHIP, AND WILL NOT LET YOU INSIDE HER MENTAL STATE

5. sacha s on August 20th, 2009 3:22 pm

   well the mental connection is just as important as the physical connection . maybe even more important for a long lasting relationship . so not sure what to do here , might be best to date someone else i would suspect .

6. dinobaze1863 on August 21st, 2009 2:20 pm

   Just do her. Go from there

7. Marvel Comic on August 22nd, 2009 12:12 pm

   id look at him but never talk or have a relationship with him …. its like wow your hot but when you talk i hate living ….

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