Jun
11
Generic question would you marry someone that did not have a physical attraction too?
Filed Under Physical Chemistry
The person is great in every other way as in the exact match but do not have a physically attraction too. This attraction, or lack of, could be looks, shape etc.. Once again remember this person is your perfect match on every other level/item just no chemistry for lack of better term in regard to sexually.
By: Ginfo
By: Ginfo
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No. you need to attracted to someone for a relationship to work,
That’s called settling honey.
He checked all your boxes huh?
I would wander. I wouldn’t do it.
If he treated me good, I would.
No. I could never and would never marry someone that i was not attracted to. The sex would be awful. Everything would be awful. I couldn’t imagine. ugh!
I would rather marry someone without a physical attraction but all else was good. There’s not gonna be much sex anyway so why not marry someone you can get along with in other areas. Besides, who wants a hottie around all the time that you can’t have sex with? I welcome the fact that the wife is gaining weight and not taking care of herself as well.
Might depend on who you are. Females will marry someone just for money power, nevermind looks. Males on the other hand will marry more for looks. Of course I’m exaggerating, but that’s what most people know.
Personally, looks don’t matter too much to me (I’m female), as long as he’s nice, loving, and honest.
I am the only one here with links to websites for proof of my word, taste that!
If you think that he would love you and treat you fairly, try for it. Sometimes when people truly fall in love, they appear differently after wards! Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and as far as serious relationships go, the most important eye is the eye of the heart. Try to make things work with him and once the eye of your heart opens, you’ll know what to do! I know this from experience, trust my words for that even you I am sure know that most people in fact only know what lust is and not love. If you still don’t believe, ask yourself, how hard is it anymore to find a decent guy? We are not a dime a dozen, most guys cheat, lie and are seemingly heartless, they just want to get into your pants. If you do not see that, then go ahead mark my comment as thumbs down. What you are doing wrong to run into these heart breakers all the time is simply focusing on the wrong details of someone! If you have not had much luck yet with guys and tend to like guys for their appearance often, then thumbs up my answer!
To do things right, let that physical attraction form from the heart! Wanting to please someone in any way what so ever because of their personality loyalty and find little itty bitty things about them that you do like will happen, and thus the proper and non deceiving physical attraction will form if the person is right for you!
It’s been my experience that if you think someone is your perfect match, you do develop a physical attraction to them even if they are not what you would typically be attracted to.
I dated a man once who was not at all the type I would typically be physically attracted to. I was attracted to to his personality. In reality he was not very good looking but he had a heart of gold. While things were good between us and I thought I was in love, he was handsome to me. Instead of focusing on the less appealing traits, I was drawn to the appealing traits. He had great eyes and a sexy voice…
Beauty truly is in the eyes of the beholder. I think a person has to feel some physical attraction for their partner even if it’s only in their eyes. There should be some chemistry or you’ll never be more than good friends which might be enough for some.